I'm losing all "expectations" I had for him... I should never have had any to begin with.
I'm losing all contact with him... I have made the decision to not contact him, although if he contacts me that is fine (but I'm not gonna hold my breath on that happening)...
You cannot get upset at someone who gets upset at you because you won't handle your part of responsibility... every time it gets to his week... all hell breaks lose.
A lot of people say I shouldn't cut ties with him... but all these people who tell me this do not have to deal with the stress I deal with.. wondering will he pick up his son? Will he actually pay daycare? Will he even contact me back regarding his child? I am so tired of the stress... and the only way I can eliminate this unnecessary stress that has been dragging me down is by eliminating the cause.... him.
I'm not gonna listen to anyone else anymore on the matter of "keeping his father in his life" - I did my part and my son deserves better than that.
"Why does he deserve to have Kasion in his life and enjoy all of the wonderful milestones IF he can't man up?
ReplyDeleteIt's Kaison!
Perhaps he will learn this if you do cut all contact with him! :)
I think you are making the right decision. You can't force him to be a dad.
ReplyDeleteI'm very surprised to see that he did actually start contacting me when I stopped... He even asked if he could come over one night to see Kaison - surprising but like I said if he contacts me fine.. but I'm not breaking my back anymore to get him to do things he should do on his own!
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